But assuming lingerie is just about sex is like thinking clothing is just about fashion. It’s far more complicated. In fact, the sexiness isn’t in the lingerie itself, but in the woman wearing it. No matter how you feel about your body, when you present it in a way that you think is the most beautiful, you’re a stunner. You feel alive—and others can sense that quality in you. It’s true. Everyone has had those moments when she’s felt on— those days when you carry a little spark and people take notice. Lingerie helps create that mood: it helps make those “on” moments happen. It reminds you that you’re looking good, that you are worthy of being worshipped, appreciated, and loved. I know all this might sound superficial or trite, but treating yourself to some lingerie is a way of improving your life that many women deny themselves. And as far as I can see, it is the easiest self-help program I’ve come across.
No matter how you feel about your body, when you present it in a way that you think is beautiful, you’re a stunner.
As I mentioned before, this is about seducing yourself—or at least seeing yourself as being worthy of seduction. Why should he set treated to the delicate black lace on a date, while yon get die granny panties on a night home alone? Don’t store your sexiness on a shelf, waiting for the day someone reaches up to pull it out for you. If you freeze life because you’re waiting for something, you can all too easily get stuck in a rut. As they say, objects in motion tend to stay in motion. If it seems like I attribute too much importance to lingerie, that I overestimate its capacity to work wonders, it’s only because of die many women who have told me how lingerie has changed their lives. Women who have found a little glamour, even as they sit under the fluorescent lights of a conference room, or drive kids to school, or schlep to the store. I’m always so happy to hear that I’ve helped someone, whether because of die lingerie itself, or die new mind-set that commies from wearing it. My views may not seem so strange once you experience the transformation yourself. As your faithful guide to the fine art of flirtdom, I’d like to start with you.
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